My wife Lucy was diagnosed with Sarcoma cancer at just 39 years old. She had just given birth to our son Reuben, and we also had a little girl called Erin who was only four at the time. Lucy’s illness progressed quite quickly and even after surgery it came back but with complications. We were told the words no one wants to hear, “Nothing more could be done.” We were devastated. The doctors couldn’t even tell long we had left together as a family. So many thoughts rushed through our heads. How could this be happening? The kids were losing their mum, I was losing my wife, how would we cope?